We don’t need them, and they serve no purpose, and they are just in the way, and they slow things down when we are trying to create the life of our heart’s desire.
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Mindset
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Who we are, our identity, is how we see ourselves?
It is our thoughts about us.
How we see ourselves is what creates our results.
Why this is important is that we tend to live into our identity vs our potential.
When we do that, we create blocks to the future that we want to create.
We create barriers to creating the outcome we want to create.
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And then…our brains showed up. The primal part of the brain that loves to keep us in the cave. The part of the brain that says…how on earth could you find jobs that pay what you are making, you love the people you work for and work with, how could you ever leave them. How could you ever find what you have in Oklahoma with 10 acres…how can you even comprehend moving horses and dogs and two barns full of stuff half way across the country.
We quickly got into what I call “How energy” and we talked ourselves out of even thinking about it.
I had made a list of all of the things that I would want for my horses if we moved to Florida and that list looked so daunting and impossible to create in Florida that I just stopped thinking about it.
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When YOU decide to work on your marriage and YOU decide to start showing up as a better partner and YOU decide the tone in which YOU will speak, the words that YOU say or don’t say, the respect and appreciation that YOU decide bring, the vulnerability that you decide to show, when YOU show up as the partner that you would like to have, YOU create space for that partner shows up too.
We all have to become exactly what we want to attract in every single area of our life and it starts with a thought and the most powerful thought ever is a decision thought.
When you decide to step 100% into emotional adult hood and stop making someone else responsible for making you feel loved, respected and appreciate, worthy… 1000 pounds of weight is lifted from the relationship and you create 30,000 feet of space for your others to show up as their highest and best self.
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How can I blow my own mind today? How can I blow my boss’s mind today. How much value can I contribute to the universe today? Who can I serve today? What needle can I move today? How can I be my highest and best self today…regardless of the outcome!