Yesterday, Steve and I celebrated 20 years of marriage. When I say celebrate, don’t let me give you the wrong impression. We didn’t throw a party or pop a bottle of bubbly. Although, I bought bubbly, we didn’t get around to it.  I thought it would be fun to share with you how we experienced our anniversary, maybe give you a few musings on marriage and maybe…there will be a mind shift for you, who knows.